I can’t deny that it is hard but I don’t agree about the label of the “most difficult ever”.

I think it depends on our approach, our efforts and how we fight for doing it in our best way.

Maybe I have this “hippie vision” because I started being a mum during my expat time and I feel it’s like being on a roller coaster!!!

Too hard at the beginning?! What do you think?!

My daughter was born premature (and not pregnant as I wrongly said one time 😂) and exactly one month after that my husband’s company moved him to London.

Fortunately that day he was in Italy, Turin, with me and he was there for the birth!!

He can work at home whenever he wants so we were lucky.

We waited with her for two weeks until she could leave the hospital and finally we went to our home by the sea all together (She was born at the beginning of last summer).

I stayed there for two months and my husband went back and forth to London.

It was a hard time for both of us; it was our first period as parents and we lived mostly separated. But we did it.

And at the end of summer, we came all together here, to London.

Now we’ve been living in the UK for one year and our lives have changed a little.

Whoever is (or was) an expat knows how difficult it is… it’s not a short journey…it’s life!

You change everything; you have to rebuild a new life and find your new comfort zone, by yourself, because family and friends are not around.

In this blog I’ll try to open my heart and feelings about this experience; I think it’s a good way also for expressing my thoughts and improving my English.

But I only want to express my positive feelings because I know that positive thoughts produce positive acts and positive people!!

Life can be very hard sometimes; I want to create my peaceful place and communicate it! A sort of anti Pandora’s box that I can call the “ Gold Pandora’s box”.

I hope this will help someone like me to handle a similar situation and maybe find a solution or idea to improve herself!!

Remember, Don’t be shy!! Life is good ☀️